Here's your rough timeline so far.
First update with new estimates "Parallella now runs Ubuntu!" - May 11, 2013
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/ada ... sts/478271
"Our goal is to ship the first 100 Parallella boards to early access backers by the second week of June."
"Progress report and shipping update" - Jun 7, 2013
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/ada ... sts/503148
viewtopic.php?f=45&t=499#p3109
"All shipments by the end of August."
"A Much Overdue Parallella Hardware Update" - Aug 21, 2013
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/ada ... sts/575772
viewtopic.php?f=45&t=374#p3780
"We will not be meeting our estimated end-of-summer ship date. Our new target is to deliver the the bulk of the Parallella boards (6,300) between September 31st (best case scenario) to October 31st ("worst case" scenario)."
"Shipment Delays" - Oct 13, 2013
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/ada ... sts/628018
"2.) Ship the first 200 Parallella product boards by November 15th.
3.) Ramp up to 6,300 units as quickly as we possible!"
They'll probably add another update about the Nov dates in the next week or so. But since we're just speculating here, I'd guess that the Feb dates you posted would be more realistic on the KS line. Preorders by Feb seems fairly optimistic at this point, but who knows.